I’m trying to take summer’s upcoming demise in stride. I know there are good things about fall and winter. But man. Summer definitely takes the cake as far as seasons go.
The thing is, I really don’t care about the temperature. My internal thermostat is pretty lackadaisical; biting cold? blistering heat? Meh. I don’t care. But there are just so many lovely things during summer that can’t be done in winter. Anyway, as usual, I’m going to try and solve my problem with lists.
Things I will miss about summer:
- The garden! I’ve been eating dinner straight from the garden almost every day this month, and I’ll miss it terribly. Those months with no fresh produce really get to me.
- The parties. Winter/fall parties just can’t hold a candle to summer parties. In my opinion, there is absolutely no argument. Summer parties are the only good ones. Winter parties are just a bunch of people stuck in a room.
- The crickets. I love falling asleep to the sound of thousands of crickets. In fact, the entire soundscape of a summer evening is perfect; children laughing in the distance, birds wigging out, crickets fiddling … man, I’m going to miss it.
- The money. It’s just cheaper to live during the summer. Fresh ingredients mean easier cooking, warm temperatures and long days mean miniscule gas/electricity bills.
- The parks. It’s so nice to take Grady outside when she’s grumpy and get the chance to just relax. Toddlers locked up inside all winter do not happy mamas make.
- The cocktails. Summer drinks are just the best! Mojitos, horchata, juleps, long islands, summer beer, fruity concoctions in a mason jar … these things just taste better in the summer.
- The biking. I’ve really liked the few times I’ve gone out biking in the evening. Winter air just doesn’t work in my lungs, so I can’t really bike in the cold.
- The clothes! I love being able to wear just two or three pieces of clothing. I love letting my legs and back and armpits breathe. I love being able to see actual people instead of just walking bundles of outerwear.
- The warm nights. During winter I am basically constantly stressed that Grady will freeze. Kiddo doesn’t tolerate blankets.
- The blogs. Summer blog posts are so lovely! I feel like in winter a lot of my favorite blogs get stagnant quick.
- The relative absence of sport-talk. I can deal with soccer and baseball season because no one I talk to is really interested in those sports; but football and basketball are such a pain. To me, they’re just things that clog the traffic on the streets and clog the content on the internet. My #1 pet peeve is how on local news websites the top 10 most popular stories are almost always at least 80% sports in the fall and winter.
- The evening light. I love having hours of light left after Grady falls asleep. In the summer I can put her down and go out to garden, dry laundry, read outdoors … in winter nighttime feels like prison.
- This:
Things I look forward to during fall and winter:
- Less shaving. But really, not that much less. I don’t like hairy legs under tights and I’m becoming more and more averse to pants.
- Television. I haven’t run out of interesting content yet this summer thanks to Doctor Who, Cheers, Torchwood and Misfits, but it is nice to have actual new content to watch each week. And NBC’s Thursday lineup!
- The absence of hoodlums. All of the stressful children are trapped in school. This really helps with my anxiety.
- The stews. Who doesn’t love a winter stew? I make them during summer as well, but there is something lovely about hot stew on a cold night.
- The quilting. I can’t really hand-quilt during the summer. It becomes a sweatbox.
Um, this didn’t really help. I just feel sadder about winter coming. Maybe we should throw a giant wake for summer?
- The hats

























